I’ll Tell You No Lies – VI
I haven’t had one of these posts for a while. Y’know, one of my nosy posts where I like to fumble around your dirty linen and uncover the secrets squirrelled away and hold a candle’s flame to those dark recesses of your minds. One of those blog posts.
Of course, I air out my dirty laundry too so it’s all mutual smut we’re rolling about in.
And enough of the extended metaphors…Could do with a shower now. Let’s settle it with this week’s question:
What was your first bona-fide sex toy?
I’m not talking about pervertibles, or home-made kink – so none of the mentions of electric toothbrushes or vegetables (has anyone *actually* done that??). No, I’m talking about specifically-made-for-the-deed toys and implements. Whether it’s a vibrator, dildo, designed-for-sex restraints or whatever – I’m curious. As always. Can’t help it, comes with the territory of the name.
If you’re new to the blog – please do add your tuppence-worth, and as usual, please return the intrusion with a question of your very own you’d like me to answer. Be it sexual or non – I’m a very obliging girl under the right circumstances.
As for myself, my first sex-toy was a little way into my relationship with Mister (again, if you’re new – he’s my One and Only, so I was still warming up to the idea of kink). If I remember correctly it was either one item or another. The first was a pair of glow-in-the-dark sex dice. You know the ones, one has body parts labelled on it and the other has actions. Thus, LICK, SUCK, RUB could be paired up with TITS, BUM, COCK – you get the idea. We’ve hardly used them. And they don’t glow.
The other was a ‘Slap and Tickle’ set – a pretty red feather tickler on a plastic stick and a small foamy hand on a plastic stick. We’ve used this more, funnily enough. Mister’s quite fond of the ’slapper’. I didn’t like the fact that it actually had ‘Slap!’ written on one side of the hand in mini foam letters and tore them off. He wasn’t amused with me.
We often use the tickler when one of us is blindfolded. I like to use it in conjunction with my nails or the wax as a balance of sensory play. He likes to use it to tickle my pussy, lightly feathering my lips and the very top of my inner thighs, making me squirm and shiver. Just at that moment before I start to get so wet in arousal – he will use it then. The thought makes my thighs quiver as I think of it now. He’s quite a dab hand at it.
So ladies and gents – what was your first sex-toy? And if you have yet to purchase one, what would you like it to be?
And please don’t forget to ask me a question in return!!
lacestockings said,
May 18, 2009 at 10:23 pm
Anal beads.
Then I ventured into vibrators – my first one was a very painful one cause it had ‘pleasure bits’ on it, that just hurt!
Question (I hope this hasn’t been asked before):
If you could bed anyone in the whole wide world – alive, not dead – that would be weird…who would it be?
leg avenue said,
May 18, 2009 at 11:09 pm
Yeah, i want to use it for my pleasure, thanks a lot for suggesting it.
ladypandorah said,
May 18, 2009 at 11:21 pm
Ha! Very advanced! Hell – I’ve only *just* got into being more comfortable about anything anal-exploratory!
Thanks for the question too and no, it hasn’t yet been asked of me. I assume you mean anyone in the whole wide world apart from Mister (cuz he’s the only one I want, pretty much!!). I don’t have a specific ‘person’ I’d wanna shag, but I’d quite like to bed a lady as I find them ultimately more sexually attractive and alluring than men. Mister’s the only man I want to be with, but women turn me on muchly.
I find it a little odd that my mind thinks this way – possibly something I need to explore in my head and possibly in written word so I can work it out for myself. And I also think exploring it in the flesh, so to speak, would help my mind immensely too
Innocent Loverboy said,
May 19, 2009 at 2:03 pm
The Durex Play vibrating cock ring. I didn’t actually buy one for some time, but TD got given one during her time at Scarlet. Took us some time to get around to using it, as well… anyway, I’ve kept using them, and I currently have a more advanced version lying on my bedside table!
The Drinker said,
May 19, 2009 at 2:57 pm
The first and only sex toy is a rather scary looking rabbit-type thingy which came as part of the free gift for subscribing to Scarlet. Except that P bought me the subscription as a joke (and then I renewed it myself, and even went so far as to work with the lovely ladies), so I don’t know if that counts. Feeling a bit deprived now – we only use an old sash of the Boy’s for bondagey stuff, and nothing else.
Hehe, vegetables! I’ve just been to the market and have an aubergine sat on my desk. That’d be a bit painful, methinks. I don’t know anyone that has (or has admitted to) the veggie-loving, but I’m sure there are people out there.
I ask… is there anything which you do (sexytimes wise or otherwise) that you don’t want to, but do it for him?
I ask because I’ve just heard about a woman who’s written a book about having sex 365 days a year as a gift for her husband’s birthday. Takes the stance that you do it because you have to, that it is his right. (Funny, I thought that sex was between two people, who both have needs…)
xx
Ed Cantor said,
May 19, 2009 at 5:08 pm
The first sex toy I bought was a pair of tweezer style nipple clamps with a linking chain. (Thank you Northbound Leather!)
I bought those not only to try out myself but also to use in play with my then-partner. The first toy I really bought for myself was a butt plug… and that was as instructed.
ladypandorah said,
May 19, 2009 at 8:56 pm
ILB – A more advanced version, how? Different settings?
I suppose the first proper buzzing sex toy I got was a gift from Mister – a vibrating dildo amusingly named ‘Seventh Heaven’. Seven settings (…no? Really? I’d never have guessed that…) I don’t use it too much. I use my buzzy bullet most of all. That’s a very dear friend.
Drinker – thanks for your question! Hmm..interesting…There’s nothing I do sexually that I don’t want to do – obviously if my heart’s not in it, he’ll pick up on that. In the early days, I wasn’t too keen on performing oral sex, and very rarely went down on him. (probably once a month if even that often :-s ). In the last few years I’ve grasped how wonderful it it to tease him along and make it a torturously delightful experience for him – and me. I lubs it lots nowadays.
I even find myself craving his cock in my mouth which is a right turn around for the books.
Ed – Ooh! I’d forgotten about our nipple clamps! We’ve not used them for years. Maybe I might root around for them in the not to distant future. Thanks for reminding me!
Blacksilk said,
May 25, 2009 at 11:12 am
That’ll have been our trusty flogger, I believe, bought for about £3 from Japan. And very good too! We still use it
Much better than the cheap crap we picked up here, too!
As for vegetables, yes, I’ve actually done that. But only because I’m the kind of person that really will try fairly daft stuff like that just to see what it’s like. I was curious! Answer? Eh, not worth the trouble, shan’t be doing it again!
My question to you: If you could have any sex toy in the world which you don’t yet have, what would it be?
ladypandorah said,
May 29, 2009 at 6:39 pm
BS – Ah, there’s always *someone* who’s tried out the vegetables!
Thanks for your question, too. Let’s see…what would I like to have…I’m rather intrigued by those ‘fucking machines’ but that’s one for the fantasies in my head rather than a reaistic item for my wishlist. Does kinda remind me of Babarella (in principle if not in design).
A more obtainable toy would be a glass dildo – for the temperature play, mostly and the designs look like the knobbly bits could get very interesting.
Interesting how the choices so far are cock-alternatives…
Other than that, I am still in great lust for a riding crop, and some long rope – the stuff I’ve seen at Twisted Monk to play around with knots and being bound, restricted etc…
Oh, there are so many many things I would love to own, were money no object. And storage space in my wardrobe the equivalent of Narnian proportions.